If you feel me, let me know

Is it just me, or are there any other women out there who have been abandoned by their significant other? Almost completely ignored, except for when the dinner bell rings, or other "appetites" need to be satisfied. I am a Voyage Century widow. Unlike a sports widow, this is a 24/7, 365 days a year I may as well be invisible kind of thing. I don't withhold food or affection, which may be the reason that no matter how much I try to explain that his behavior is making me nuts, nothing changes. He just doesn't get it. Please post if you feel my pain.